will kohling was a former england rugby star and diana met him at the gym they both attended. >> he is reported to have upset his wife and so far not commented on the breakup. >> although diana denied they had a relationship, their friendship was blamed for the breakdown of his marriage. >> his wife, julia, came out fighting and in the process trashed the princess. >> diana was called a home wrecker. these stories gave rise to a lot of questions about why she couldn't find someone that was unattached, why she kept going after married men. >> her choices, her behavior were the subject of intense public scrutiny. >> it is an absolute double standard. charles didn't have the same skro scrutiny. >> diana knew the source of her power was her popularity with the public. she felt that she was in danger of losing it for the first time.