will kohling was a former england rugby star and diana met him at the gym they both attended. he is reported to have upset his wife and so far not commented on the breakup. although diana denied they had a relationship, their friendship was blamed for the breakdown of his marriage. his wife, julia, came out fighting and in the process trashed the princess. diana was called a home wrecker. these stories gave rise to a lot of questions about why she couldn t find someone that was unattached, why she kept going after married men. her choices, her behavior were the subject of intense public scrutiny. it is an absolute double standard. charles didn t have the same skro scrutiny. diana knew the source of her power was her popularity with the public. she felt that she was in danger of losing it for the first time.