daughter, and they wish they wanted her to basically continue with this. and this is a tragedy for everybody involved. the system has failed the whole family, riqka and the parents no doubt. jon: she turns 18 next week. once she turns 18 she can make her own decisions, right? if she never wants to go back to her family again she doesn t have to didn t that the case. definitely. legally that is exactly the case, jon, that is the tragedy that everybody in florida and ohio had this whole year to basically get to family together and have them go to counseling and talk to each other. the people who interjected themselves in this case in florida continued their political game in ohio unfortunately and have kept this family apart. they have never actually been to counseling together. and it is a tragedy because dependency is all about reunification. if everybody had proceeded in good faith and the outside parties had stayed out i see no reason why this familiar family