do that, we had to give up smoking otherwise pay a large sum of money, which, in the grand scheme of things, it is one of those choices, and we were quite, i would not say we were heavy smokers, i don t know what you call a heavy smoker but we were 10 15 a day and we had been smoking from the age of 16, i was 30 at the time, my wife was 29, but when you re confronted with that, and the opportunity to have a child in your life, as we were, we did it, we actually went cold turkey, no nicotine tablets or anything like that, it was just, nicotine tablets or anything like that, it wasjust, we have got nicotine tablets or anything like that, it was just, we have got to do this, so we did. it was hard, i must admit, i must admit nowadays, it is probably quite, when you are out having a drink with your friends and things like that, but you look back at it and think, it is almost like an incentive, and i m not saying