with a neck injury she d suffered a couple of years earlier in a minor car accident. even the holiday ornaments in the mall storage room were too much for her. i did the lift and i did the boxes. i did the karena. i m like the weight machine. she doesn t lift weights. then there was the elephant in the room since lisa s death, a subject that her friends and family didn t feel comfortable even putting words to. and that was how they felt about scott all the years that he d been married to lisa, impressions of him that ran from self-centered jerk to nasty drill instructor. now that circle of lisa s friends were asking if scott had something to do with that so-called accident in the basement. there he is. he was lisa s husband. but the rest of the family didn t get it. he was an awkward fit. [inaudible] . we at hall early gatherings.