with a neck injury she'd suffered a couple of years earlier in a minor car accident. even the holiday ornaments in the mall storage room were too much for her. i did the lift and i did the boxes. i did the karena. i'm like the weight machine. she doesn't lift weights. then there was the elephant in the room since lisa's death, a subject that her friends and family didn't feel comfortable even putting words to. and that was how they felt about scott all the years that he'd been married to lisa, impressions of him that ran from self-centered jerk to nasty drill instructor. now that circle of lisa's friends were asking if scott had something to do with that so-called accident in the basement. >> there he is. >> he was lisa's husband. but the rest of the family didn't get it. he was an awkward fit. >> [inaudible] . we >> at hall early gatherings.