ellen now held an executive level position at a large dealership. she was the boss to 30 mechanics, and making upwards of $90,000 a year. she put your feet to the fire, to make sure you get the job done and move on. she was no pushover. she was no pushover. she stood up for herself. right. inside the walls of that nice home, allen s rank was near the bottom. he became very condescending, controlling. where i could go, who i could see. at home, mike made the rules and ellen obeyed them. you had a significant executive job at a big company. yes. so, you re not some little shrinking violet, whose home cowering under her husband s direction? but, when it came to being home and opening that door, i was that shrinking violet. that s how things were, he ran the show. it was two different ellen s,
the snyder home had escalated. mike s multiple sclerosis had grown progressively worse and with it so had his anger. he would push me around. he hit me. he hit you, how many times? one time? three or four. ellen now held an executive-level position at a large dealership. she was the boss of 30 mechanics and making upwards of $90,000 a year. she put your feet to the fire. make sure you get the job done and move on. she was no pushover. no pushover. she stood the up for herselves. right. inside of the walls of the nice home ellen s rank was near the bottom. he became condescending, controlling where i could go, who i could see. at home, mike made the rules and ellen obeyed them. you had a significant executive job at a big company. yes. so you are not some little
reporter: it was christmas 2001. ellen said the daily fighting in the home escalated. mike s multiple sclerosis had grown progressively work. and with it, so did his anger. he would push me around. he hit me. reporter: he hit you how many times? one time? three or four. reporter: ellen now held an executive level position at a large dealership. she was the boss to 30 mechanics and making upwards of $90,000 a year. she would put your feet to the fire, make sure you get the job done and move on. reporter: she was no pushover? she was no pushover. reporter: she stood up for herself? right. reporter: but signed the wall u.s. of that nice home, ellen s rank was near the bottom. he became very condescending, controlling, where i could go. who i could see. reporter: at home mike made the rules and ellen obeyed them. you had a significant executive job at a big company.
danger, so i want to turn the gun over to you. frank was retired military. a straight by the book guy who had befriended ellen snyder when they worked together in 2001. she was telling people that he yelled at her all the time. it was christmas 2001. ellen says the daily fighting in the snyder home had escalated. mike s multiple sclerosis had grown progressively worse and with it so had his anger. he would push me around. he hit me. he hit you, how many times? one time? three or four. ellen now held an executive-level position at a large dealership. she was the boss of 30 mechanics and making upwards of $90,000 a year. she put your feet to the fire. make sure you get the job done and move on. she was no pushover. no pushover. she stood the up for herselves. right. inside of the walls of the nice home ellen s rank was near the bottom. he became condescending, controlling where i could go, who i could see. at home, mike made the rules and ellen obeyed them.
make sure you get the job done and move on. she was no pushover. no pushover. she stood the up for herselves. right. inside of the walls of the nice home ellen s rank was near the bottom. he became condescending, controlling where i could go, who i could see. at home, mike made the rules and ellen obeyed them. you had a significant executive job at a big company. yes. so you are not some little shrinking violet whose home cowering under her husband s direction. when it came to being home and opening that door i was that shrinking violet. that s how it was. two different ellens, two different lives. they interviewed ellen s old boss. he told the detective he remembered an incident when