brother and this goes throughout life in the family and dealing with other people. just as a final question before i let you go, joel. bib c but this isn t a sexual situation, it s a sport. you know, i would partially agree with you but partially disagree. wrestling is a sport but it s not like other sports in that there is the intimate contact. there is the grabbing. if this type of activity were to occur in any other setting besides a wrestle mat, the boy could, you know, be up for charges. joel, does that worry you, joel, that you might somehow feel maybe a temptation or