brother and this goes throughout life in the family and dealing with other people. >> just as a final question before i let you go, joel. bib c but this isn't a sexual situation, it's a sport. >> you know, i would partially agree with you but partially disagree. wrestling is a sport but it's not like other sports in that there is the intimate contact. there is the grabbing. if this type of activity were to occur in any other setting besides a wrestle mat, the boy could, you know, be up for charges. >> joel, does that worry you, joel, that you might somehow feel maybe a temptation or