>> collin pulled me into the phone room and asked if he could chat with me and he said this article talks about me having an unprofessional relationship with somebody and i wanted to share my side of the story with you and i want you to feel comfortable here . >> in silicon valley you have a lot of young people, young white men managing teams that are growing really quickly. there's a lot of ego. you have move fast and break things mentality. you work long hours. you code. you don't take off. you can't show any sign of weakness. ♪ ♪ >> it all goes into this myth of the silicon valley founder, right? think of the steve jobs model.