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Gaslighting: Understanding and Managing Emotionally Abusive Behaviour
What to do when you have a person in your life who makes you feel crazy.
Gaslighting is a common word that comes up in my work with survivors of a range of relational traumas (i.e., traumas that have been inflicted within the bounds of some kind of interpersonal relationship). The term first entered the popular lexicon after the 1944 film ‘Gaslight’, where a husband convinces his wife that she is going crazy by subtly dimming their gas-fuelled lights each day, and telling her she is hallucinating.
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Let’s try that whole spring thing again this weekend, shall we? After that weird and thankfully brief snowfall on Montreal’s parade this week, everything’s melted away and we can all collectively get back to the business of enjoying the city when it doesn’t require parkas.
A new exhibition at the MMFA
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Living in Apathy Is a Problem
Telling yourself you can’t do something, means you won’t do it.
It says: ‘I can’t’. Often it means ‘I won’t’.
I’m too old, too young, too late, too stupid, too bold. They’d never accept me. I’d never measure up. What’s the point?
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apathy.
There are so many more. Fatalism, confusion, despair, hopelessness, helplessness. So often in my life, I have searched for a saviour; idealized or idolized someone who I thought would take me out of my life and bring me to the fresh greener stuff on the other side of the river bank.
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How To Know if He Likes You Only Through Online Chats
When you aren’t able to meet in person, then how do you know if a guy is romantically attracted to you?
A friend of mine was ghosted by a guy who apparently confessed that he likes her. As frustrated as she was, she then asked me, “As a guy, would you ghost a girl that you like?“. Short answer, OF COURSE NOT! NEVER!