tiara from the queen or one that diana wore as a nod to prince harry and make sure she feels they feel the presence of her in the chapel that day. sandra: as far as the guests are concerned, what are the rules? this is a big one. the dress code is morning suit for gentlemen or lounge suit. actual morning suit, the very formal british formal day wear. it has the coattails, the waist coat, the jacket in many different layers and a lounge suit is just a suit. sandra: simple for the men. when it comes to the women there are a lot of rules. a lot of rules. you want shoulders covered, stockings are recommended for a formal event like this in the u.k. you want closed toe shoes, they re the most formal for day wear and then you will see, of course, the hats. sandra: what about the hats? we want to make sure we
aren t choosing big brimmed hats. it is not the kentucky derby, more about the festivity hat. something that shows that you are there in spirit. so it s almost people choose the hat before the outfit in many cases. what about the body language and the hugs and courtesys? do you kiss on the cheek or not? when in doubt it s a handshake and an air kiss, england is two. the courtesy. if you see the queen of england you should courtesy. sandra: there are a few rules being broken starting out with the date of it. typically a royal wedding would be on a weekday. they have chosen a saturday. which maybe is also a nod to meghan s american side. this is a very american thing to have a wedding on a weekend. it is not british to have a rehearsal dinner or real rehearsal. i think she will probably bring