aren t choosing big brimmed hats. it is not the kentucky derby, more about the festivity hat. something that shows that you are there in spirit. so it s almost people choose the hat before the outfit in many cases. what about the body language and the hugs and courtesys? do you kiss on the cheek or not? when in doubt it s a handshake and an air kiss, england is two. the courtesy. if you see the queen of england you should courtesy. sandra: there are a few rules being broken starting out with the date of it. typically a royal wedding would be on a weekday. they have chosen a saturday. which maybe is also a nod to meghan s american side. this is a very american thing to have a wedding on a weekend. it is not british to have a rehearsal dinner or real rehearsal. i think she will probably bring