brian: have you ever wondered why your teenagers listen to coaches more than you. brand new book called coach parenting. here to share some of their advice is the author and parenting expert erika katz. erika, you are an expert and you were frustrated your kids weren t listening to you. what did you notice how they were dealing with their coaches. my kids when i would ask them to do something they wouldn t listen to me. when my son s basketball coach would ask him to do something i m on it, coach. what are the coaches doing that i m not doing? i had this idea that i could learn a lot from football coaches because football coaches they have this big team of all these different players with different personalities. i wanted to see what i could learn from them. brian: you have a great roster of people. steve mayor niewchy for one. he writes parenting and coaching are a allot a like stay on players and kids.
faith-based groups to help you raise your children, it s just another layer. brian: lastly tom cotton gave you 90 minutes on the phone legendary giant and jaguars president wrote you can motivate by being constructive not just critical. buy in and join it i like what you did i think can you do better what are you doing? never want to tell your child that they are stupid. can you say maybe that wasn t the best thing that you could have done because you want them to buy in to your rules. they are not going to buy in if you are criticizing them personally. this is a really great tip from him. i actually use that with my own kids. brian: you don t have to be a sports fan to like your book it s called coach parenting. erika, great job. sounds like a fun project. i had a great time. brian: read all your books. make you a better parent. tom graves will be here. democratic side with senator chris coons, what does it mean for immigration? do we have a deal coming?