brian: have you ever wondered why your teenagers listen to coaches more than you. brand new book called coach parenting. here to share some of their advice is the author and parenting expert erika katz. erika, you are an expert and you were frustrated your kids weren't listening to you. what did you notice how they were dealing with their coaches. >> my kids when i would ask them to do something they wouldn't listen to me. when my son's basketball coach would ask him to do something i'm on it, coach. what are the coaches doing that i'm not doing? i had this idea that i could learn a lot from football coaches because football coaches they have this big team of all these different players with different personalities. i wanted to see what i could learn from them. brian: you have a great roster of people. steve mayor niewchy for one. he writes parenting and coaching are a allot a like stay on players and kids.