i have less than two weeks now until move in day. all the stuff i m going to need. it s so cool. it s my own card. it s a debit card. i am excited to move out of my parents house and into college where i can just be myself. i tell my family still uses my dead name and missjen there being dead names and being mispronounced is a lot more serious. a lot more on a deeper level than just the obvious. so when you do get misidentified like that it s a slap in the face every single time it happens. i understand where they come from when they have never had a really close interaction with a trans person and now their kid is one. so i can take the liberty to be