tell us about victim empathy and alternative to violence and how lit benefit you in the future. as i said, the alternative to violence course is i ve always thought i ve been pretty good with people and i basically have spent a conflict-free life, you know. i m not a guy that ever got in fights on the street and with the public and everybody. but as i said, they give you a bunch of little tools about how to talk to people instead of fighting, instead of throwing punches, tools that i ve used here that, you know, it s how you talk to people, the tone that you use. the victim empathy was once again i didn t really see that in this case i didn t really see that alford beardsley but, ah, really affected by it all, but bruce was affected. you know, bruce was i saw that he was affected and as i said, i would have done anything, anything not to have that happen.