It became almost Second Nature for her because she that four children and has to do what she has to do to survive. There are other cultural institutions which also help the administration of deprivation of the war. For example, institution of dispute resolution through Tribal Councils and through religious councils that exist in afghanistan, and more use that be made of these sort of local dispute resolution mechanisms to help resolve local conflicts. Right now most of the time when theres a local conflict say you and i have a conflict over land. We both theres no land deeds. This is a country without official records no land deeds and we both say this is our piece of land empathy would we resolve it today is by shooting each other or if i have access to the Afghanistan Government or youre a member of the taliban, or if youre a member of the taliban, i say he is a spy with the u. S. , and that is how these things tend to be resolved. But there is a long history of other type of dispute