my high school 20th year reunion and i chose not to go because i wasn t married and i didn t have kids and no matter how many accomplishments i had under my belt, i still chose not to go because everyone else was married, everyone had kids. when i didn t go, the very next day i received a number of calls from student who said why didn t you go. i was too embarrass ridiculous. i need to forge my own path and realize that life just doesn t end because you don t have kids or you re not married. here i am at the age of 41, and so much has happened in my life within the last three years. i got to meet beautiful women, inside and out, who have been able to40, that you just continue to evolve and that these women who are written about in my book have done so much starting at the age of 40 and who are now in their 70s and