will go in and they ll they want it on the record but if you say, let me go off the record and they ll say, okay, and they honor that. so you re on the record, off the record. neil: you have to keep prefacing it. he wanted off the record and they saw they were being used. i got to call the press in here and off the record basis. i don t want them to let them ask menage. these are all my friend so they ll come to the tea party. and neil: right. they all have eek goes. the one thing that the press, media, whether it s conservative or liberal or whatever, they don t like to feel they re being used, and i think in this particular case they felt were being used. neil: the republican party seems to have found its sea legs, maybe because of the scandals and also surviving the sequestration cuts and we have