There are no strict rules when it comes to choosing which pronouns fit you best. The key is to “take your time,” said Dennis Quesnel, a project manager at Egale, which is an advocacy group for LGBTQ people in Canada. And know that your choice “might not always stick.” That’s OK, said Louis. “There s going to be a lot of information coming in, coming at you from different angles. There s going to be your parents opinion, your friend s opinion, the internet s opinion … and it s OK to not be OK all the time. And it s OK to not know and not have the answers,” Louis said.