goes. they never actually see each other in person. the jail requires that inmates friends and family members check in at the visitor s center. they talk by closed circuit tv. me and my dad have our issues, we get along now. that s my best friend. and she is like i tell my dad everything. i talk to him about guys, females, sisters, brothers. a lot of times chicks don t understand that, because they had a mother that was always there, you know. like, remember, when nan ya first came on her period, i started crying, i didn t know what to tell her. that s the things that make it more special. and not having that separation. that s what i ve always told you. i would rather you tell me everything than somebody else come to me and say this is what s going down. garcia wasn t always honest