goes. they never actually see each other in person. >> the jail requires that inmates' friends and family members check in at the visitor's center. they talk by closed circuit tv. >> me and my dad have our issues, we get along now. that's my best friend. and she is like i tell my dad everything. i talk to him about guys, females, sisters, brothers. >> a lot of times chicks don't understand that, because they had a mother that was always there, you know. like, remember, when nan ya first came on her period, i started crying, i didn't know what to tell her. that's the things that make it more special. and not having that separation. that's what i've always told you. i would rather you tell me everything than somebody else come to me and say this is what's going down. >> garcia wasn't always honest