i only found him to be a loving man. he told me on many occasions how much he loved his wife and his son. you could see it when they were together. it was nothing that i was making up. he worshipped the ground this girl walked on. they just they kind of loved each other. it showed. the cramers were quite a bit younger than the katzes. as transplant td new yorkers, they had a lot to share. they were as close as can be without being family. they were there christmastime for dinner. they were there thanksgiving. they were at our house. they brought the boy, of course. he was 11 then and the light of their lives. he was shy, had a few learning issues, perhaps a little trouble socializing. oh, how the cramers doted on that boy. he was brilliant. kenny and his son were virtually inaccept pashl. kenny turned up most days at his