i only found him to be a loving man. he told me on many occasions how much he loved his wife and his son. you could see it when they were together. it was nothing that i was making up. he worshipped the ground this girl walked on. they just -- they kind of loved each other. it showed. >> the cramers were quite a bit younger than the katzes. as transplant td new yorkers, they had a lot to share. >> they were as close as can be without being family. they were there christmastime for dinner. they were there thanksgiving. they were at our house. >> they brought the boy, of course. he was 11 then and the light of their lives. he was shy, had a few learning issues, perhaps a little trouble socializing. oh, how the cramers doted on that boy. >> he was brilliant. >> kenny and his son were virtually inaccept pashl. kenny turned up most days at his