a well heeled widower with whom she d often dine overlooking the lake at this five-star hotel. maybe it s proof that if you do enough shopping, sometimes you find exactly what you re looking for. just basically living a very affluent lifestyle. she didn t need to work apparently. back in pam phillips former country of residence in november 2009, three of gary triano s children won their wrongful death lawsuit against pam. a judge ordered her to pay them $10 million. but gary s family and friends wondered, would they ever see pam return to the united states to face charges? because by then, detective gamber had learned pam was no longer in switzerland. it s like i told heather, i said pam s disappeared. we don t know where she is. she could be anywhere in the world. the sheriff told me to find her. so they re asking me to pull a