we have the 41st president of the united states as you've never seen him before and he tells his story many his own words in a revealing and deeply personal new documentary. let's take a look. >> i've seen what crosses that big desk. i've seen the unexpected crisis that arrives in a cable in a young aides' hand and so, i know, that what it all comes down to, this election is the man at the desk and who should sit at that desk, my friends, i am that man. >> the film is called "41." by jerry weintraub. it's a fascinating documentary. there's so many things about this man you didn't know. i was like, i didn't know that happened to him. i didn't know about all this. i saw all sorts of stuff. pictures, images, revelations from his own mouth with wire are really startling. >> you know why you don't know it and most people don't know all that is because how never bragged about himself and he never felt that he was going to be an imperial president. that he was designated to be president of the united states. he was doing a job. and his mother and father, early on as you saw in the film, told him, don't brag about yourself. don't talk about yourself. don't be a big shot. just go ahead and run your life. have your life. and that's what he did. and even in the best of days and in the worst of days, he didn't sit around the living room and say, look what i just did. look what i just accomplished. look at me, look at me, loog at me. it was never that. it was about service to the country. >> an extraordinary moment and i want to show a clip and -- this is him in the war. he's a pilot. and they've run into heavy fire and they go down. and he crash into the water. incredibly, it's all on video and you have this remarkable sequence. let's watch a bit of this. >> sure enough, it was a rescue sub. and they came up out of the sea alongside of me and i want up and we went down into the submarine and next thing i know we're under the water. >> particularly appropriate i think, in the week where it's the anniversary of d-day. you see that footage there and you see the man who was to become president bush. but in that moment, he's dragged out of the water after this life or death moment as he crash into the sea and they just leave him to walk up the deck. that's the reality of war. and in that moment, you can live or die. and he just shrugs himself down and gets on with it. it's no surprise to me when you see that footage that this forms the character that we see as president. a man who, whether you liked him or not or agree with his politics, no one ever questioned his integrity. >> and he was frightened when he went down. it was a life-and-death situation. he was as close to death as you could get. he got shot out of the air and he was very upset and concerned about his crew. that's what was on his mind. and he knew that he was -- it was do-or-die. when he, later on, had to send kids to war, he knew what war was and he knew what life and death was in an airplane. >> and he's very powerful sense of him understanding it because of what you see earlier on with that footage and him telling a evocative terms. he doesn't hide the fact that he was terrified and lived with it. he said lnl every day he thinks about this. the rest of his life. never knew what happened to all of his colleagues. and another moment which i found very powerful is when he's working with president nixon. and he believes him when president nixon looks him in the eye and said, i had nothing to do with this, he keeps believing him and keeps believing him and then the moment comes when out comes information which makes it clear that the president nixon has been lying and he says that he, in that moment, sat down and wrote to him and said, you must resign and then he talks about his personal heartbreak at this disillusionment that he felt of this president lying to him. and again, you get a sense of that forming how he, then, was as a president. really interesting. >> i happen to be close by when he got the news and he was going on, i think it was on "face the nation" or on "meet the press" he was a heavy rnc at the time. and he was crushed when it happened. he liked nixon and he thought nixon had done a great job in a lot of ways for the country. and he forgave him later on and helped him with hus library and so on as time went on and things healed but i don't think he ever got -- i don't know this for a fact. he never said it to me. i doubt he ever got over that moment and the fact that he was lied to. >> and probably reconciled in himself, that if he ever was in that position, he would never do that. >> oh, he wouldn't be in that position. he would never have been this that position. >> he comes over as a fundamentally very decent man. >> he's not only a very decent man, he's a great man. and as history is telling now, and it's happening, i've watched it the last few years, they're really writing the story about this guy because he didn't -- he doesn't talk it or do it himself. he doesn't get out there and do it. he doesn't do a lot of interviews and he won't sit around and say we did this and this hour and this at this moment. and all that stuff that some presidents do and some secretaries of state. he was just doing a job. when he was the ambassador of the united nices he was doing a job. when he was the head of the yci he was doing a job. when he was the liaison for nixon, he was doing a job and one job led to another and when you look at his complete body of work, no other man was as well prepared for the presidency in the united states of america as george bush. no other man. >> let's take a break. we'll come back and talk about the family which has been the rock of his life. from his wife to the daughter that i didn't realize he had lost at the age of 3, a terrible tragedy in his life. and the son who went on to also become president. if you made a list of countries from around the world... ...with the best math scores. ...the 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that's the way that that family was. >> obviously -- and still is. amazing marriage to barbara. 67 years, one of the longest marriages i've heard of. >> she's a very, very strong woman. but -- and everybody knows that. she's a very strong woman and you don't really want to cross swords with her but the fact of the matter is he's the boss. has been the boss. they have a fantastic partnership. they love each other to death. and they'll be together forever. she was a beautiful, beautiful woman, is a beautiful woman. >> you ski the pictures there. >> here's what i was struck by. really powerful moment in this movie when -- i didn't know this story. they have a daughter who is about 3 years old and she gets leukemia and they try everything to save her life and prolong her life and in the end they fail and the doctors run out of ideas. and as president bush tells the story, you know, you feel tears welling up watching him. never mind how he must be feeling and yet he tells it with such eloquence and such emotion and you can see that, today, it's as raw to him, having to talk about it, as it must have been at the time. >> i think it is as raw for him today. he's not somebody who feels sorry for himself. he feels blessed. and so does barbara. they're blessed people. they've had a wonderful, wonderful life. that was a big jolt. but there are jolts in life and that was as big as it gets. it doesn't get worse. >> he said he couldn't talk about it for a long time afterwards and the footage you have is so poignant. it's this biefl little girl, and she dies before she's even 4 years old and it's heartbreaking. and yet, they have joy at the end. they have another daughter. and you know, he said he wasn't sure how he would feel but when the daughter came, it was just this great, huge, enveloping of love for her. >> he had twice the love. >> yeah. clearly. >> but the whole family is like that and when you go back to his dad and his mom, i knew both of them in kenny bunkport. they were strong and gave him a sense of family and service. this was -- that family is like that. they are totally committed to the family and to life and to love and to doing the things right. >> how have you managed to stay his big buddy for 45 years, given everyone in hollywood has probably been opposed to his policies and his sons. >> i don't care about any of that. i don't care what people say in hollywood. first of all, he came to hollywood when he was president of the united states and barbara when she was first lady and we had parties for him at the house. every big hollywood star came. every left wing. liberal, progressive, whatever they call it today. everybody's got a title. they call came to the house. george bush loved looking at the pretty girls. barbara boish loved dancing with warren beatty. no problem with that. so it was -- they came and they were respected. the office of the presidency is above all that. and he didn't use it as a political tool -- >> who would you get if you were casting a movie, who would you get of all the people you've worked with or seen, to play george bush sr. >> i don't know. i'd have to think of it. right off the top of my head -- if i name somebody i'd lose five more of made stars. >> clint eastwood? >> clint? >> what age? >> even when he's younger, there's a certain dash to the hollywood movie star to the young president bush? >> i think he'll like hearing that. >> when he was younger. >> when he watches that tonight he'll -- maybe he'll come back and do a detective series. >> that would be fantastic, wouldn't it? >> it's a great documentary. it's a movie. and as i say, very revealing. very surprising and he just overall, comes off as authorly good chap who put the service to his country before his own interests and i think for that he should be greatly appreciated. jerry, it's been a pleasure. thanks for coming in. on hbo on june 14th, called "41." and i warmly recommend it. a fascinating film. coming up next, chas bo know talks about his fascinating new life as a single man. not what he expected when he was growing up. i'll have more awkward conversations than i'm equipped for because i'm raising two girls on my own. i'll worry about the economy more than a few times before they're grown. but it's for them, so i've found a way. who matters most to you says the most about you. massmutual is owned by our policyholders so they matter most to us. massmutual. we'll help you get there. in here, great food demands a great presentation. so at&t showed corporate caterers how to better collaborate by using a mobile solution, in a whole new way. using real-time photo sharing abilities, they can create and maintain high standards, from kitchen to table. this technology allows us to collaborate with our drivers to make a better experience for our customers. 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>> i mean, i think it put some pressure on the relationship. but ultimately, you know, the reasons why we split up had really nothing to do with that. it was issues that we were dealing with and just stark differences in the people that we are and what we ultimately wanted out of life. >> yeah, i mean i get that you say that, but there must have been for her i guess a huge sea change in the nature of the relationship. you know, there she was originally with a woman, like i said. and it is a fascinating twist, isn't it, that she then has to cope with you becoming a man. for you it was a huge change, but one that you were wholeheartedly embracing. did you feel that she ever fully embraced what you were doing? >> you know, i think that she did. but of course, you know, i have changed a lot. and you know, here's the -- it's really the internal changes that i think are the bigger changes. and i went from being, you know, really uncomfortable and kind of damaged for my whole life to suddenly not being that way anymore. and as -- you know, as i started to feel so much better and my confidence rose and everything, i think i was probably less able to -- you know, i wanted to live the best life that i could. and i wanted my partner to be able to, you know, kind of do that with me. and there were, you know, deep-seated issues around substance abuse and stuff like that that had been really a problem almost since we first got together. and again, we just, you know, wanted different things out of life. >> i mean, you also made this reality show, didn't you, "being chaz," which she seemed to feel uncomfortable about. do you regret doing that with hindsight? >> i mean, it wasn't a pleasant thing to do, you know, honestly. but i don't know -- you know, it couldn't have been predicted. i mean, we made the documentary, and jen was, you know, thrilled doing it. and this was something -- doing the follow-up special was something that she said she wanted to do. and then once we were in the middle of it, you know, she decided that she hated the process. but at that point, you know, there wasn't really anything we could do about that. >> have you managed to stay friends? >> yeah. i mean, i think we both care very deeply for each other. i want absolutely nothing but the best life for jen. it was just -- i couldn't do it with her anymore. but you know, i really hope that she gets everything that she wants. >> now, you, chaz, are in the very unusual position for you of being a single man about town. how are you finding that? >> well, i'm not the most outgoing fellow. so -- i'm not one of those guys who can just walk up and start chatting up a girl that i find attractive. so you know, that really hasn't changed. and you know, the world is i guess full of possibilities when you're single. but mostly i'm just kind of enjoying the time on my own and with my friends and how, you know, being single at least for me forces me out of some of, you know, my bad habits, which is to, you know, isolate and not really be social. and now i've had to really change all of that. and so i'm just kind of enjoying the process of it and really -- i would say for the first time in my life i don't feel like i have to be in a relationship, that i'm incomplete if i'm not in one. and that feels really good. >> let's take a short break, chaz. when we come back, i want to talk to you about the other women in your life, cher, your mother, and your congresswoman stepmother, mary burnham mack, who i've had the pleasure of talking to. and i'll chat with you about them and their reaction. also how the public are reacting to the new chaz. 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>> you know, i think that it just -- when that first started with those types of people, i just kind of let it roll off my back. and i've always been pretty good at that. and i think i was already starting to rehearse. and i just really tried to focus on that. and then, you know, what started to happen is i got this counter response to the kind of, you know, negative -- negativity and hatred speech. and i started getting so much support from people that i didn't know. and that just kind of blew me away. and it really, you know, fed me to keep going through the whole competition. i write a lot about it in the new paperback version of "transition," which you know, i added i think about 25 new pages all about "dancing with the stars" and kind of my life after the documentary came out and all of that stuff. >> i mean, also since i spoke to you we've had this seismic moment, the president of the united states endorsing gay marriage. what did you think when you heard that president obama was doing that? >> i was -- i mean, i was so touched, it just -- to me it's really the civil rights issue of our time. and to have president obama come out, to finally have a president, you know, be able to say that they were, you know -- they believed in marriage equality, it just meant so much, you know. and i have so many gay and lesbian friends, and it meant so much to them. it's just -- especially in an election year it's just amazing that this is no longer the issue that it was for so many years. >> having said that, the republicans in their race to choose a nominee got pretty vocal about gay rights and their opposition toward it, including mitt romney, who is now the nominee. if he becomes president, would that concern you that his position on as you said the new civil rights issue in many ways would be pretty intransigent? >> you know, as a democrat i'm always -- and especially after our last republican president i'm concerned to have a republican in the white house for any number of reasons. >> but particularly that one? >> again, any number of reasons. you know, yes. on any type of social, civil rights issues that's certainly scary. but i also worry about our economy, you know, just as much as anybody else. >> do you and your stepmother have lively debates about this, chaz? >> you know, we really don't. when we talk politics, we find the common ground. and the stuff that we feel differently about, you know, we don't let it get in the way of our relationship. honestly, it got in the way of my relationship with my dad. i was a lot younger and took things more personally. and i think, you know, he wasn't really a great communicator. and at that point i wasn't either. and the lesson that i learned from that is family is so much more important than personal politics and mary and connie have been there for me, you know, immediately before even my mom was comfortable with my transition. and because of that i love them both. and no, we don't -- we don't let our different political opinions get in the way of anything. >> well, chaz, it's great to catch up with you. i always feel like we should do this every year because so much happens to you in the year in between. so do come back. >> thank you. >> it's a great updated version of the book. it's a very inspiring story, your story. and i sort of agree with your mother. you're a courageous guy. and it's good to see you having some happiness in your life. >> thank you. good to see you too. >> take care. if you are one of the millions of men who have used androgel 1%, there's big news. presenting androgel 1.62%. both are used to treat men with low testosterone. androgel 1.62% is from the makers of the number one prescribed testosterone replacement therapy. it raises your testosterone levels, and... is concentrated, so you could use less gel. and with androgel 1.62%, you can save on your monthly prescription. 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>> you know, i'm very excited. it's been rough. after the olympics i've had a couple surgeries, one big one in my knee, a reconstructive knee surgery. >> at this age this is what happens to us. our bodies begin to collapse. >> it does. i mean, my knee surgery obviously had to do with my training. but i got out of bed and i'm like, oh, my god, my back's out right now. and i'm going through that phase where it's not because of training, i'm just middle-aged. >> one of the main reasons i guess you're competing again here -- and this might not be the end of the journey. who knows? rio in '16? why not? >> no, no. >> nothing could stop you. >> no. seriously, i will be in menopause by rio. >> no one's going to believe you even if you say you're not going to do it in rio. nobody's going to believe you. the point i was going to make is i think the reason you're so determined to win in london is in beijing you lost by 1/100 of a second. watch this little clip of what you said about this. >> i am so competitive i can't not think about it. it's always going to bother me for the rest of my life. that's just the way i'm built. i'm upset that i lost by 1/100 of a second. >> i mean, watch. that's it. >> it's probably quicker than that. >> it's even faster. >> i mean, when you watch a video it actually looks like i won. what the heck? >> that's the picture there. you're on the right. you look like you're winning. what happened? >> i don't know. >> in the last 100th of a second did you just give up? >> no, i didn't give up. oh, my gosh. my coach, what he told me is you swam the perfect race but maybe you just didn't touch the touch pad hard enough. so actually what happened after that is i swam 30 minutes later and after he told me that i touched the wall and i broke my thumb and tore the ligament off my bone. >> seriously? >> yeah. people don't know that's what happened after he told me -- >> you broke your thumb? and i broke my thumb in the next race. >> because you were so full of rage? >> i was just -- i couldn't believe that i lost by a touch. >> how hard are you hitting that wall to break your thumb? >> i didn't know i did it. i think it was just my coach in my head, you know, just telling me that i didn't touch the wall hard enough. so the next race i guess i tried to prove that i could touch the wall hard enough. >> is there any experience in the world better than winning a gold medal at the olympics? that you've enjoyed yourself. >> having my daughter. >> other than that. >> other than that. no. it's just -- >> no man? >> that's a good question. now i'm blushing. >> if i can say to you, look, dara, here's the deal. you can have the best sex of your life all over again right now or olympic gold in london. >> you're killing me with that question. >> which one are you going to take? >> oh, my gosh. >> i think it's the ultimate question. >> okay. my fluff answer will be the gold medal. >> do you mean that? >> you know what? i do. because -- >> you're actually thinking about something completely different now. >> you've got my mind all flustered -- >> your mind race back to -- where are we going? a beach? >> yeah, something like that. no, the thing is i earned this myself. so this is something that i worked my whole entire life for. so i think that's what makes it so rewarding. >> i heard that all the young athletes come up to you in the american team, all the young turks, and you think they want to ask you about what's it like being on the podium and so on. and actually, what really focuses their mind in the olympic arena when you're all together is the multicolored condom allocation. is that true? >> i think i have to shut my mouth more. yeah, you know, it's funny. so i always thought, well, i can be a big influence for the kids. they can come up to me, ask me questions about the olympics and what to expect. and one day at the 2000 olympics i got a knock on my door. and a bunch of the young teenagers come in and said dara, dara, we want to ask you a quick question. i'm like sure. and we sit on my bed. they take out a magazine. it was folded to a page. um like what magazine is that? cosmo? i'm like, okay. and they said look, look here. and they're pointing at it. they're saying they have, you know, rainbow condoms in the olympic village. i'm like you guys seriously that's what you want to know about? yeah. okay, it's true. next? >> i always quaintly assumed that when you get to that stage of the preparation it's like boxers, there's no hanky-panky. from all i've been reading and hearing about from all the athletes i've interviewed, it's kind of relentless. it's like an explosion of rabbits in there. >> well, it is, but it really does happen after the competition. like people are really, really focused when they go. but you have to remember, you're with all these top athletes. the best athletes in the world from every sport. and when they're done competing, the pressure's off, they want to go have fun. >> so they're all magnificent physical specimens -- so why not, right? 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[ flo speaking japanese ] [ shouting in japanese ] we work wherever you work. now, that's progressive. call or click today. i'm back with dara torres. i had been told you had the greatest six pack in the history of the female population certainly. and we are about to establish whether that is true in a live television experiment. dara, stand please. >> are we going to stand side by side and do it together? >> no, we're not. but i would like to see the greatest six pack. >> oh, my gosh. they weren't kidding, were they. >> it's okay. >> you have no tom mac. >> i do have a stomach. >> you've had 45 years old and you've had children. >> i have one child. it's hidden in there. >> women are watching this, falling over saying how do you keep that six pack? >> people have to remember i work out every day and i do this for a living. >> for how long? >> between four and six hours. >> you eat loads of ice cream i'm told. is that true? >> where do you get your information from? i feel like you're big brother watching me. yeah, i like ice cream. i have tried to be betting about my eating because it's not as easy for me to recover right now. my problem is being able to swim three races to qualify or being able to swim three races to win a medal. with my recovery, what i do now is make sure i get lots of rest. i make sure that i do stretching, which really stretches out your body to get the lactic acid out and when i have muscle aches, i get bengay. we were talking about how i was getting out of bed and my back went out. >> tell me about your psychic friend, bernard. >> i just went to him the other day. >> he predicted you would win gold in beijing. did you fire him? >> he's great. he's been almost on with everything. just about. >> what has he said about london? >> i don't like to share that. i don't want to jinx anything. >> you can trust me. what has he got right? >> a lot right about my personal life. >> like what? >> well, okay. i remember i was having problems conceiving. for many years i tried and he was correct about having a daughter and -- >> really? >> yeah, yeah. so it's one -- >> you were having trouble conceiving and he predicted you would have a daughter? >> yeah. he's predicted about my coach when he was sick. i don't know. there's not a set schedule i go to hit, just when i need reassurance. he's like a life coach? >> he's medium. >> who does he talk to? >> what you do is you go in there and he leaves the room and you take a card and you write down three questions that you want answered and three people that have passed away and sign and print your game. and you can ask questions, but what he does the people that are on your card, he speaks to them. >> how extraordinary. >> it's cool. a lot of the people he says, there's no way we would know. >> which relatives? >> my dad, who passed away. >> and you have a conversation through him? >> i don't have a conversation -- yeah, he's an example. i asked something and my dad came in and started talking about how my dad only wants me to finish this last one because he wants to see me have a family. he's told me since i was 21. just stuff he wouldn't know. >> that's gripping. tell me about your checkered romantic life. because that's -- >> i didn't know it was checkered. >> you had two quick marriages. >> the first two marriages i had didn't work out for various reasons. when i got together with the father of my daughter, we were together for six years. but like it's one of those things i don't know if i'll ever get married again, because after having two failed marriages, i don't want another one. so it has to be perfect. >> can anyone who is driven as much as you are to win, can you ever really be in a long, long-term relationship, or is the first love really in that water winning? until that's done in your life, do you think you've got a chance? >> i guess i'll find out in a few months. >> what are you saying? >> like i'm ready to move on. like my dad said, be more family oriented and settle down. >> one last gold in london? >> i would just like to make the olympic team. that's my goal right now. >> they couldn't leave you out. >> well, it's not -- they don't have a choice. i have to get first or second in