bob told her he had aids. >> when bob johnson died of aids, it really hit her hard. she did a 180. and she had a revelatory moment. she would say, who is going to take care of these people? they've got this horrible disease that nobody understands. so, she did an aids benefit. and she thereafter became quite outspoken about her support of the gay community. >> aids is just a horrible disease, and we have to make everyone very well aware of it. and this is one of the very best ways of doing it. food is love, isn't it? it gets everybody together. >> julia came from a place where there was a very set notion of