In her book, Ury categorizes frustrated daters into three primary categories, and they each have unique challenges.
The Romanticizer: If you are caught up in the fairytale about how you want your love story to play out, this could be you.
The Maximizer: If you are a swipe addict with a checklist of qualities for the next best match, you fall into this category.
The Hesitator: If you have trouble getting started dating or have a million reasons for why this isn’t your time to find love, this is definitely you.
In her book, Ury spells out eight questions daters should ask after they meet someone. She says these questions can help people get in touch with how a date made them feel and stay away from a “checklist” dating mentality.