experience. it's actually a very spiritual and devil and what it's saying is let's let the child be a child and eventually the child will decide what it wants to be, how much it wants to identify as a boy or how much as a girl. this person is also saying that it's not that i'm not going to raise the trial as a girl or boy, i'm just going to say to the child, you just be a child, just be an individual for a while, i have a government interfere with who you are, let's not put a set of preconceived notions about who you are unto you, let's just let you develop as a human being and eventually you can decide whether you want to be a boy, a girl or nonbinary. >> tucker: yeah, but you can actually decide and i for choic choice, there are a lot of biological reality is that i'm sad about that i would change -- i'm sincere that i would change about myself. i'm not attacking anybody. don't you think that biological reality matters and lying to kids and telling them actually you could be 6'7" or you could have blue eyes instead of brown, or whatever, those are lies and it's never a good idea to lie to