then it happened. >> spoke to him that morning. matter of fact i was on the phone with him when he got the call. i said wow, i guess i won't see him until midnight. >> midnight came and went. joe never made it home. >> i remember the first night i had all four of them in the bathtub. thinking in my head how am i going to do this? >> for the spor kids, it's the memory of their dad that get them through the hard times. >> i remember my dad being a happy guy. he would be singing in the house. i remember waking up and i'd wake up and spell pancakes and i would get excited because it was daddy's flap jacks. he made them the best of anyone. we used to dance in the kitchen and i danced on his feet. when i got out of the bath he would put my hair in a mohawk. >> even the youngest has