author of a flag and put it in a park dedicated to their son. >> do you come here a lot. >> i do. i come through here if i go to work or on the way home from work i will come in just to look at the flag and look at the monument and pay honor. >> do you shed tears here? >> oh, yes. nor man once. >> we have two choices. we can either mourn the loss or rejoice in what we had. >> staff sergeant jeremy vrooman was killed in iraq. he could have gone last but he took the lead. >> he put the needs of others ahead of his own. he wanted to bring his men home a lye and good shape and did he that. >> this flag pole is for johnny sills who came home from iraq in post-traumatic stress disorder and died in a motorcycle crash. he already knew david larson helping military families suffer a loss never dreaming she would be one of them. >> thought was to remember our