had no place in their lives they've always cooked traditional took his food sat down now takes those traditions and puts his own spin on that but not in his mother's kitchen. yes as it is this month if she's making a ragu or a goulash and i say what about using less meat then you have more heat in the pan then she'll say fine leave me alone i've been doing this for twenty years i know what i'm doing mama cooks better that's why. i'm used to your food as such that god has a stock i've never eaten much of his food. it's not your style it's not my taste just . like that it's a case of what you don't know you don't miss where dad doesn't know he doesn't eat just. well you know i haven't even much of his place but he's not a bad cook. he's very good. second sometimes cooks