well, actually, just last night it was. i was with a person who is facing some challenges. we shared our personal experiences, an effort on my part to point out that we can make it through tough times. look, that s part of every day life for most people. you have friends and acquaintances that have challenges and you talk about them. and i can tell you this. my life has been greatly enriched by my relationship with this young lady here. and i know how whiffle s got it because i was able to marry ann. but the reason i m in this race is to help people. i m not in this race to slow the rise of the oceans or to heal the planet. i m in this ris to help the american people. this is a commitment on my part, on ann s part, on our family s part, because we care very deeply about this country. i really think that those people that try and minimize. the feeling and the connection ....