she sat there half listening, her equilibrium gone in a world of bad feeling. i was hurt and angry with him and myself and it was just it was unbelievable to think that those two years had been a sham. oh, yes. and, in fact, more than one sham. a whole quilt of shams. detectives back in northern california had begun to uncover details of a double life that had been shall we say prodigious. it seem at every turn there was some woman that had an involvement with. there were quite a number of them. he said he was recently single. like pamela nichols who respond toddlerny s ad in march of 2008 in the dating section of craigslist in las vegas. she met him for drinks. ernie s personality was very nice, friendly.