and her then saying for the first time, yes, caylee s been missing for 31 days, and i ve been camp b out at the babysitter s and going to places she might be. but i think what really hit home was the repetition of the fact, maybe i am an unfit mother, and maybe i m not letting you see caylee because i am a spiteful b. but then when we got to cross-examination of lee, his body language was far more comfortable, he was at ease with the defense attorney, but he said nothing, as far as i m concerned, that benefited the defendant, casey anthony. jon: so the girl had been missing 31 days when that exchange took place, the exchange we just, displayed on the stand. right. and brother lee had been trying to get in touch with casey. and finally when they do get home on the 15th of july, he says why don t you just bring her home? end all this craziness? he said, i tried to be the peacemaker here, and the sister was like, the defendant was