A me. And there was a time when lorenzen got violent with sherra when he found it with another man. A story he denied. Lorenzen was never charged again, or at any time while abusing sherra. Its very often that victims of domestic violence do not report their abusers to the police. By the time of the murder, ren and sherra, had been divorced for five months and living five months apart. Her attorney said despite all of that, she was still scared. He was telling the children in the summer of 2010, words to the effect, your mother and i are going to get back together. And sherra did not want to go back to that life. According to her attorneys, sherra believed her only escape was to lure ren back to memphis to have him killed. But lorenzens mother, debra, insist the story of abuse are all lies. She murdered him. She killed him twice