You about it last week. feels so important to me to sort of make public the ways in which father s emotional connections to their children are at least as and potentially much more important than their financial contribution. just as the problem in my case i didn t realize how bad of a dad i was until i realized how great of a dad i could be. at that age, 18, and so much of the issues we talk about with dads and fathers not being there. they are 18, 19, 20, 25, they re too young and imature to really understand what they re supposed to be doing. we talk about fatherhood. that s an extension of manhood. we have an extorted view of what manhood is in the first place. as he s talking about there. i put my daughter to sleep last night or i say i gave her a bath or woke her up and you change those diapers. you re the dad, i m not supposed to do that. that is what mom does and dad does these other things. ....