patientai and i turned in my beeper and i quit. at the same time, my wife, who was a lawyer, decided that she didn t love the law and she quit as well. we left our home and we came to washington to seek our fortune. she became an artist and a sculptor and i became a writer and columnist. and things have turned outec rather well. don t be afraid to choose. choose what you love, and if you don t love what you ve chosen, choose again. and it ends with my eulogy to him, which was also a very hard decision whether to put that in or not because, again, i wanted to hold dear and precious those things that were just my gift to him. but i want the world to know what kind of man he was. he quite simply willed