That she does half hour or an hour activity and then after that, she s just exhausted. me! that s beautiful, neave! look at that. you sort of become a bit of a spectator. i feel much older than i am which is difficult, and it s really hard on andy as well, cause he s got to juggle work and juggle being an entertainer and a cook. and then he gets worried cause i do too much and my symptoms then flare up. you just have to have admiration for her, the way she has handled it psychologically, going from someone who is out cycling to work everyday, up mountains at the weekends, out running with the kids, ....