that smile. it does make you question yourself. you no longer trust your instinct and what you think you know about people who you know, or how you know them. lacey s mother, her friends, their lives never really returned to normal. how could they? but they have adapted like humans. to stacey laurie and now have their own children and those children who never met lacey, know her. she was a part of our life she is a part of our life still. so that means our children need to know about that part of our life. she is special and she had a baby. so the cemetery is not a place of sadness for them. usually. i love it because my boys got to hear about her and they always bring cars out for calmer or a baseball out this time. it is a place where they can celebrate a life, someone they