feel left out, neglected and feared, they can come to this cross room and feel whole and be themselves. former nfl player, william black well, he told you, we know their lyn lingo, i tell them, you belong to me, don t act up in my class, don t embarrass me, some of them have not had anyone talk to them like that. the graduation rate has gong up 10%. i mean, you know, reading those words that they have never had a man talk straight up to them like that, it s very powerful. when you think about in these communities and so many of us are so removed from those communities where there are bullets flying every day, they re stepping over bodies, they literally are dealing with the trauma of seeing gun