your baby has a lot of problems and she has a very severe form of spinal bifida starting on her and her shoulder blades and she won t be able to survive with us on top of the. kidneys and the severity of the spinal bifida cause a lot of damage from brain your baby is incompatible with life jennifer decided she wanted to spare her baby any pain and have an abortion what happened next was almost as traumatic she and her husband had to hastily arrange a trip to a clinic in liverpool because doctors an island couldn t help. are you ready. they couldn t talk to you about it over here that we got the details of liver promise on a scrap of paper you know we had to ring ourselves they couldn t do any other for us. just you know like you were just totally alone. they took