plaintively at doctor. to have in my pocket. how do you deal with nosy neighbors? is this the right approach? you re old enough to remembe missus kravitz. from bewitched. ignore them. that is the best thing to do because it s kind of in a weird way it s kind of stocking. it s a preoccupation with somebody and you can only make things worse. my theory is it s the only dnieper that is around there longer interested in the neighbor that just moved in. for whatever reason, i think people when they are older sometimes get a little worried that the neighborhood is going to go the wrong way. i had problems in one town. we re not in our yard. strangely. in their yard. ....