there s nothing that i can do for lauren except to honor her memory. and maybe prevent some other parents from going through this. colleges look at lauren s case and make some changes then maybe that s what my great hope is, is that it will then lead to some very common sense, much needed changes at colleges. big price to be paid to get that far. too big of a price. [applause] at what should have been lauren s graduation, other students look to the future. it did it stop her family and friends from thinking about the past. i would love to hear her voice again. i would love to hear her laugh. i tell people, i won the kid lottery. and she was such a part of our lives, i would talk to her