Date? if you re in this space and a little older and you have a kid, is there a different type of dating you do, and different sort of dream date? a dream date was just one that ended with me laying next to a woman. i mean, that was. gettin some. at some point you are with kids all day every day. you just want to be with somebody who can complete a sentence, you know what i mean? that was the dream date, that there actually was one. you know, it s not easy to find one-on-one time, because i lived in one bedroom with three kids and a st. bernard. it s not easy to convince a woman to have sex with you in a minivan i don t know if you know that the story keeps getting better. you have to broaden your haydn. we did picnics at night, we did hiking. picnics at night? with a strange guy, probably ....