temper and regret it rarely do you say i am so glad i flew off the handle. you have something else so lacking especially as i watch these fraternal congresswomen and men come in. they are not listeners. they came in talking. i look at cory booker, for example. he didn t say a word for a year and a half i m new here. watch these other freshman walk in and came in talking. you say be professional listeners? we have innate need to be understood, to be heard. unfortunately we are horrible listeners, mentally tough people they listen with the intent to understand not with the intent to reply. brian: when you listen and respond, people bond with you quicker because they know that your views matter. we are very simple as humans. brian: all right. simple in a good way? simple in a good way. brian: want to be mental tough where do you go. mental toughness speaker.com. brian: he did it marines. you don t have to because he did. eric thank you so much. thank you, sir. brian: video insan