I’m a pastor. My concern is with the church what she believes, what she celebrates, and what she proclaims. Achieving some legal and political end is not my primary calling and yet, I’m concerned that many younger Christians ironically, often those most attuned to societal transformation and social justice do not see the connection between a traditional view of marriage and human flourishing. Many Christians are keen to resurrect the old pro-choice mantra touted by some Catholic politicians: personally opposed, but publicly none of my business. I want Christians to see why this issue matters and why when same-sex marriage became the law of the land the integrity of the family was weakened and the freedom of the church was threatened.