Conversation around abortion has always been very secretive. it s always been ironically led by a lot of men but very emotional. we sort of tend to think that women are the emotional gender. it s a very emotional conversation to compare abortion to murder. what toss that mean? what does that imply? i ve gone to pro-life conventions. i ve gone to trump rallies, and even if you go there today, if you ask people who are staunchly pro-life and identify that way and vote that way, if you really ask them about rape and incest, of course they want to make exceptions for rape and incest, so this is not even in line with the most sort of radical factions of the people that they are trying to really sort of cater to, and so what we re seeing, democrats often have difficulty portraying the positive vision that their policies can sort of create, and what they are getting is actually the contrary or a political gift from the right which is the nightmare if they ....