women as chrissy was saying, who are no longer going to accept the sort of things that we re treated as sort of part and parcel of how you had to survive to get through. so on the one hand, they have expectations that the world can be bigger and better. on the other, social media is a place where toxicity is coming at them. it s a very odd moment. on one hand, we see women gaining power and space. politically and institutionally. at the same time, we see a lot of anxiety and hostility. i think one of the weird kind of political churn dynamics we have now is that there s actually, we re actually gaining a lot of more power than we ve had in the past and more of a conversation about what s not acceptable now. that s also producing a massive backlash. it s a situation in which if there was more silence, that would not be better. that would just be that people, you were talking about in the earlier section on policing,